Oh the decisions that one is called upon to make when moving. What items are keepers and which ones are givers-away. The pressure of being the decider of the fate of inanimate objects is enough to make one sit inert for days on end. Especially for a someone like me who is well known in my family and circle of friends for being the quirky one who names her inanimate objects and carries on two-way conversations with said named objects.
Object (“O”): Please don’t set me out on the sidewalk for anyone of any moral or immoral character to take me.
Me: But it’s your time to go.
O: Please. Please keep me.
Me: I think your next home will be kinder to you – your face won’t get so dusty and your view might be better. You know you sat in that corner for five years.
O: And I never complained. Now that must be worth something.
And the debate goes on and on. Do you see the pressure of which I speak? I have had visions of setting everything out on the sidewalk or the trash can and running away. No forwarding address. No note left behind. Less dramatically, I have also had visions of just packing everything. Not sorting. Just picking up each and every thing in the Attic that we have acquired and putting all of the stuff into boxes to be sorted through at a later date. But there is the small matter of the moving pallets and the storage fees.
So I have returned to the original plan of sorting and packing. Oh but it’s tiresome. Fatiguing as well. Exhausting too.

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Saturday, May 31, 2008 at 11:44 am
c
i understand those little conversations, have had them myself, with books.
It’s funny, i don’t really have a problem getting rid of most things. Growing up in clutter (my mother cried wet tears in 1992 when i shredded an envelope of bills from 1971) i really can’t abide much that is not useful to my daily routine, aside from art. But books, and blue jeans, are so hard for me to give up.
i wish you perserverance in this endeavor. Think of it as lightening up.
i find listening to fast music helps. Also taking a moment to remember the good times with the items.
Saturday, May 31, 2008 at 7:07 pm
junemoon
C ~ Thank you for your encouragement and sorting suggestions! I actually accomplished a lot today toward the sorting and packing deal so that feels good. You are right that the process does bring along its own set of lightening up-pedness. junemoon
Thursday, June 19, 2008 at 11:17 pm
Amber
I am proud of you and also a little sad since I of course always want dibs on your cast offs.. I love the way your things that become mine smell like you it lingers for sometime, I wonder what the people who did not see you only the things on the street thought if it triggered some happy thoughts or brought some comfort – A
Friday, June 20, 2008 at 8:20 am
junemoon
Amber ~ Our sense of smell and the connections it can bring is simply amazing ~ sometimes sentimental, sometimes nostalgic, sometimes odoriferous. I am glad that my belongings do not fall within the latter category
and I am grateful that you and I are closely connected. junemoon